Week 4- January 28th

This week I was able to contact a few more offenders than I normally do whilst checking for updates on cases that we are still tracking. Usually, I have a hard time getting a hold of the youth once the mediation is completed. It is odd that they would be less willing to contact me during the stage of the process that affects them the most, the time when they do or do not complete the terms of the agreement. I know I always come back to the parenting, but it is such a factor when it comes to following through with the agreements. So many of the juveniles who do return calls appropriately and make the effort to get their agreements done on time, have supportive parents who are invested in their futures. I am often awed when I see parents who are MIA and do not care one way or the other about  their children's future, especially given that their children are already in the system. 

When thinking about my career goals, I would hope that as a PO, I would be able to help parents get a better idea of what to expect from their children's lack of cooperation (which translates into their own lack of cooperation). I know as a PO, the job description does not say advice-giver or psychologist, but I do think that many of the parents whose children are in the system are in need of some counseling. It is a shame that as a state and a country, we are not able to provide people with basic counseling to help people cope with the struggles of life in such a economically stressful environment. Those who are strapped for money are generally not worried about things such as counseling, instead, they worry about putting food on the table. This translates into a household that may or may not have the emotional support system appropriate for children.